Archive for “Adoption Preparation”
By: Dr. Karyn Purvis
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Watch as Dr. Karyn Purvis explains the importance of sharing appropriate levels of power with children from hard places in order to help them learn to trust and to heal. This video is part of the Insights and Gifts video series, which includes a small group discussion guide that you can download here.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Behavioral Challenges, Discipline, Giving Voice, Insights & Gifts
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By: Dr. Karyn Purvis
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Watch as Dr. Karyn Purvis talks about the importance of predictability for children from hard places, and how parents can help children succeed by enabling them to know what to expect. This video is part of the Insights and Gifts video series, which includes a small group discussion guide that you can download here.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Behavioral Challenges, Fear, Insights & Gifts, Investment Model of Parenting, Overcoming Fear
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By: Dr. Karyn Purvis
Monday, March 21, 2011
Watch as Dr. Karyn Purvis encourages parents not to be afraid of their child’s feelings and instead allow their child to openly discuss and process their feelings. This video is part of the Insights and Gifts video series, which includes a small group discussion guide that you can download here.
For more Empowered To Connect resources aimed at helping parents discuss and embrace their child’s feelings, click here.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Being Fully Present, Compassion, Giving Voice, Insights & Gifts, Loss and Grief, Overcoming Fear, Talking with Childen
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By: Dr. Karyn Purvis
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Watch as Dr. Karyn Purvis focuses parents on the need to use playful engagement to help disarm their child’s fear response and enable a stronger connection. This video is part of the Insights and Gifts video series, which includes a small group discussion guide that you can download here.
To learn more about the importance of playful engagement and how parents can use it to both connect and correct, check out the Playful Interaction DVD from the TCU Institute of Child Development.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Behavioral Challenges, Creative Ways to Connect, Discipline, Fear, Insights & Gifts, Overcoming Fear, Playful Interaction
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By: Dr. Karyn Purvis
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Watch as Dr. Karyn Purvis talks about the importance of parents taking care of themselves in order to be more fully present for their children to help them heal. This video is part of the Insights and Gifts video series, which includes a small group discussion guide that you can download here.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Being Fully Present, Insights & Gifts, Motivations and Expectations
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By: ETC Team
Monday, March 14, 2011
Join us April 8-9, 2011 in the Denver Colorado area (at Mission Hills Church in Littleton, Colorado) for the next Empowered To Connect Conference.
Registration for the Denver ETC Conference is still open — and you can still take advantage of the 1/2 off registration discount (made possible by a generous grant from Focus on the Family). Simply use the code FOCUS when registering online to receive this discount.
Visit www.etcconference.org for more details and to register online. We look forward to seeing you there!
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Church Ministry, ETC Conference
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By: Amy Monroe
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Sue and Ron had three biological children who were healthy, happy and loved the Lord. Life was good and honestly it was fairly simple, at least until they went on a mission trip and visited a Russian orphanage. It was there that they knew in their hearts God was calling them to adopt—and not just adopt any child but a 10-year-old girl named Sasha. They were excited about what God was going to do in and through their family, but they were quite nervous as well.
Sue and Ron knew many families who had already adopted and some of what they knew about these families’ experiences was more than a little scary. Most of them adopted older children from Russian orphanages, some from Sasha’s orphanage, and most had encountered significant challenges not long after they returned home. As they reflected on the struggles that these families faced, Sue and Ron were determined to learn from these families’ experiences.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Attachment, Balance of Nurture & Structure, Count the Cost, Creative Ways to Connect, Motivations and Expectations, Older Children
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By: Amy Monroe, Michael Monroe
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
In this audio presentation Michael & Amy Monroe speak to a group of adoptive and foster parents (and parents-to-be) at a Tapestry event about what it means to approach the adoption and foster care journey from the “inside out.” This process requires that parents be willing to look back and make sense of their own past, look forward and honestly examine their motivations and expectations, in order to be free in each and every moment to be “fully emotionally present” with their children to help them heal and become all that God has created them to be.
In addition to listening to the audio, you can also follow along with the slides and handouts for this presentation.
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Tags: Adoption Preparation, Attachment, Behavioral Challenges, Church Ministry, Count the Cost, Motivations and Expectations, Tapestry, Trauma
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By: Dr. Karyn Purvis
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
The Institute of Child Development at TCU has created a nearly two-hour presentation available on DVD in which Dr. Karyn Purvis explains her research-based approach with children who come from what she calls “hard places.” This DVD offers a very helpful overview of the three principles that serve as the foundation of Dr. Purvis’ approach to help parents better understand how to connect with their children in order to help them heal and reach their highest potential.
In this presentation, Dr. Purvis explains how harm during the critical stages of brain growth can cause significant disruptions in a child’s development and behaviors, and offers strategies to overcome these challenges. This insightful and educational presentation is designed for parents, ministry leaders and adoption and foster care professionals alike.
You can order the DVD online from the Institute of Child Development for a price of $30 (plus shipping). To view a preview of the DVD, click here.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Behavioral Challenges, Brain Chemistry, Discipline, DVDs, Fear, Giving Voice, Investment Model of Parenting, Playful Interaction, Sensory Processing, TCU Institute of Child Development
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By: Amy Monroe, Dr. Karyn Purvis
Friday, January 14, 2011
The mission of Empowered To Connect is to offer hope and help to adoptive and foster families. We believe that one of the most effective ways to accomplish this over the long-term is to encourage and equip churches to create healthy and holistic adoption and foster care ministries. And in order for our churches to do this, they must be willing to provide education and practical support for families in the post-placement phase of the adoption and foster care journey. This is a big challenge no doubt; but it is one that our churches must rise to meet.
Dr. Karyn Purvis and Amy Monroe recently led a webinar entitled The Post-Placement Journey, where they offered insights and resources to equip adoption and foster care ministries to help families meet the challenges of loving, nurturing and building strong relationships with children from hard places.
Tags: Adoption Preparation, Church Ministry, Investment Model of Parenting, Tapestry
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